Friday, September 07, 2007

xoxoxox Mike

Not that he reads this or even blogs here anymore LOL but he might....

I wanted to thank him for all his hard work the last two weeks helping to night wean the Boob Princess, which has meant that he hasn't had a proper nights sleep in, well, two weeks! She threw some massive temper tantrums the first 3 or 4 nights, and he literally was up every hour with her. Cause I got to sleep in our room, while he slept with her in the spare room, away from the "temptation" of mom. (and only at night, she's still nursing during the day)

She has started to wake at 10:30 now, has a drink of water, and goes back to sleep usually till 6, then I go in and sleep with her until about 7 or so. This is such a vast improvement from her waking every two hours!

Ironically, it has done wonders for our marriage. (tsk, get your minds out of the gutters!) He said to me one morning, "Wow. I understand now, why you were too tired to do anything the last 4 years. " (again, get your minds out of the gutter, we DID have a second somehow! Haha, now your minds are firmly entrenched in gutterland)

But how nice it was, for him to suffer like I did. He got a really good taste of sleep deprivation for two whole weeks, and counting actually. He still gets up with her at night, not me. Then heads to work. But my dearest love is ever so grateful that he heads to the office, and doesn't have to take care of the kids all day LOL, and admits it regularly!

So Xoxoxoxxo to Mike, I appreciate you and love you more than you could ever know. You must be my soulmate to put up with my crazy ways! And you are! *smoooch*

Now, off to go wake him up, he fell into a sleep-deprivation coma and is lying in a puddle of drool (no, really, he IS) while putting Her Majesty to bed! Aww.

F-cking Facebook

I knew this article was coming, you can see Karen (----> founder of Bliss, look at my links) is mentioned in the article. And I read her blog, and I sent Facebook an email myself .(ya i know big shock)

Here was the reply to my email... to sum up (and it was a looong email) I had kindly and surprisingly politely asked them to perhaps forward on this issue to their legal department for consideration, because one never knows when you are breaking Human Rights Laws, or states laws even.

The reply....

Thanks for the suggestion. We will certainly keep it in mind as we
continue to improve the site.
Thanks for contacting Facebook,

Customer Support Representative

You will keep it in mind? That you might be breaking laws? Craig, Craig,Craig. We all know you are a little 20 year old boy who filters through these emails, and couldn't tell an important issue from your ass.

I really love that Facebook puts semi-nude (and worse) banners on their site. Its OK to whore our own values out for money, but, no, really, Facebook users, we will stop YOU from making our mistake!Breastfeeding is so morally wrong and violates our terms. But you, Miss Honey Spanksalot, you go and put your chesty picture up there....roooowr! Thanks for the thrills!


Ok ok the article. I rant no more.

Asher Moses

September 7, 2007 - 2:00PM

Thousands of Facebook members are on the warpath after the social networking site removed images of breastfeeding mums and banned others for posting "obscene content".

They call themselves "lactivists" and say Facebook's practices are discriminatory.

Facebook's hardline stance on what its members can publish on their profiles is somewhat hypocritical given that it was caught running an image of a topless model in a banner ad for a dating service.

The mothers, many from Australia, started a petition in the form of a Facebook group called "Hey, Facebook, breastfeeding is not obscene!". The group now has almost 7000 members.

"Absolutely it is discriminatory and it makes me angry," said group member Pru Wirth, a mother of two from the central coast in NSW.

"If actual venues can be fined up to $40,000 for asking breastfeeding mums to cover up or move on, then why not a virtual public place?"

Another group member, Sally Millwood, from Petrie in Queensland, said: "I know from first hand experience breastfeeding can be a tough road to go down and, if you have success at the end of it, it's an amazingly proud and important achievement to be shared."

Facebook spokeswoman Meredith Chin said Facebook - which has more than 200,000 Australian members and 31 million users worldwide - did not prevent mothers from uploading photos of themselves breastfeeding their babies, but it did remove content that was reported as violating Facebook's terms of use.

"Photos containing an exposed breast do violate our Terms and are removed," she said.

It's not clear what constitutes an "exposed breast", which has the lactivists baffled.

Facebook did not respond to emails requesting further clarification but several group members have reported that their images were removed despite the fact they contained no nipple.

"Where does the feeding stop and the boob begin?? A peek of nipple?," one lactivist wrote.

Wirth, who is yet to have one of her own images removed, rejected Facebook's justification, saying there was a "real difference" between a user uploading their own images of their own body and Facebook themselves violating their own terms of use for profit.

"Regarding the case of the inappropriate banner ad that was posted, we have since removed the ad as it was a violation of our Terms of Use," said Chin.

In addition to removing particular photos from the site, Facebook has permanently revoked the membership of some of the mothers.

When one, Karen Speed, appealed and asked to have her account reinstated, Facebook said its decision was "final".

"We will not be able to reactivate your account for any reason," read Facebook's reply, published by Speed on her blog.

Wirth said it was important Facebook reconsidered its policy because it was restricting users from "sharing a normal part of our lives and our babies' lives".

She said Facebook had adequate privacy settings that allowed users to restrict access to their images.

"I can't see how sharing photos of your baby feeding with friends and family, or anyone really, could be deemed obscene," she said.

"If breastfeeding was done publicly more often it would just be the normal done thing, not something women should feel ashamed about, and it certainly wouldn't receive this kind of offensive reaction."

Tuesday, September 04, 2007


My first ever, completely made from scratch East Indian cuisine meal. And it was goooood. Mmmm. The naan bread was my first attempt ever, and turned out great, just needs more spices, and was rather cool to make. Then a chickpea curry, which tastes like a tikka masala sauce, made from scratch too. Going to watch Angel now, I spent all my time updating the kids blog and have nothing left to say about me LOL!